The Truth About The Goals You Set [Real Talk Series #1]

Here’s an episode of “real talk” from me to you, …

The reason you aren’t achieving your goals has more to do with you than it does your goals.

(this is probably not something I’m ‘supposed’ to say #unpopularopinion)

If you are constantly trying to “improve yourself” in hopes that one day you’ll be better or good enough, you aren’t gonna reach your goals. And if you do reach your goals, the satisfaction won’t be there.

This is because your bruised ego is leading the charge in making your inner child “better” to receive love or approval.

(I’ll share more about this in another article)

But this won’t work because that’s not how this works.

You have to accept yo’self based solely on your existence. If you can’t say the statements below without resistance showing up (i.e. yea but, what if, etc) then something is up:

• “I exist therefore I am worthy”
• “I exist therefore I am loved”
• “I exist therefore I am enough”

 

Here’s the thing…

this is the truth.

No matter what. No matter what’s happened in the past. No matter what happened or didn’t. No matter what you’ve done or experienced.

Accepting yourself is deep work. This is especially true if you’ve been through some shyt. However, accepting yo’self is the only way to truly make progress, reduce self doubt, and stop letting other’s opinion of you hold you back.

So let me ask you, … are your goals, YOUR goals? Or are they someone else’s? Are they helping you create the life you want from a place of enough or from a place of seeking approval or love? Let me know. Comment below or in the members’ area. It’s me on the other side!

Over the next few days I’m going to share more.

Until next time

With
Coach Brittany